The psychology lab at North Carolina State University had a group of families take part in a study of family relations, with a game, Life Stories. "Every family has issues, so we asked them to engage and talk about some of the issues that matter to them," said Dr. Amy Halberstadt, an associate professor at N.C. State.
Halberstadt wanted to know how different families respond to serious issues in the home, so they developed the study to research how families respond to issues raised during games they play.
Halberstadt believes that games can reduce stress in the home, and improve relationships between family members. She calls the process the 5-to-1 ratio. "So if you can boost your positive conversations, compliment, positive experiences; to have 5 of those for every one conflict or negative experience, that really seems to benefit families," said Halberstadt.
The Life Stories game is a typical roll-the-dice board game, where you move a character around the board and draw cards. But the questions on the cards get players talking about their emotions, values, and issues in family life at home.
The issues that arise while playing the game give Halberstadt clues to how the family handles issues in their own lives. Using the game, Halberstadt is able to help families discuss "shared goals" as a way to reduce conflicts.
The N.C. State psychology department is looking for more families to participate in the study. Interested families can contact the school at their contact number - 919-515-2251.